Banalization of sexuality and nudity throug social media

Dear Peach’z

For a few years now, social networks have allowed us to feel better about our bodies and our sexuality. In fact, you've probably already had an argument with your parents over one or two slightly naked pictures. We can understand them ! Because in their time, it was very frowned upon ! We can ask ourselves, what happened to make us feel so free ?!

Actually, the answer is quite simple. Women have always had a duty to be "perfect" and that only their husbands had the right to see them. But times have changed, and we ! Dear peache'z, want to have the possibility to feel free, in our body, in our mind and in our sexuality ! Social medias have allowed us to change morals, because today, if we want to post a picture of us in our bathing suit, we can ! In reality, we also want others to find us beautiful, to tell us in comments, to like our picture, because it gives us confidence in ourselves. Some people think that we only want to "attract" men, it can happen, but we know that we are doing it, deep down, for ourselves.

So far, I've only talked about women. Don't worry dear gentlemen, we're with you too ! We talk a lot about women because they're the ones who have been most reprimanded. Indeed, men do not have the same problems concerning their nudity, but that does not mean that all is well for them ! The race for the most virile, the most muscular, the cliché of the ideal man is also something to banish. Social medias allow us to fight against that. Feeling good about your body should come before criticism.

Social medias don't allow us everything either, don't dream ;) We can't show ourselves totally naked either, but that's not our goal! Because there can still be dangerous consequences for all of us, so be careful what you post my friends! Don't forget that the internet can be extremely vicious !

Due to social networks, cohesion has been created. Before, sexuality was a sensitive subject, but we were able to fight to be able to talk about it! Thanks to different series, movies, youtuber... We were able to take sexuality out of the taboo subjects, even if there are still things to improve :) Sexuality is a subject that concerns us all, and to avoid doing stupid things, we must continue to talk about it. Discussing it with our parents can be difficult, and that's understandable! You can still try, but you know that the different media can also help you.

So in closing, we hope you enjoyed this little article! See you soon and take care dear Peache'z !

By Victoria Matline